About Me
- James McTyre
- Knoxville, TN, United States
- Interim Pastor of Evergreen Presbyterian Church (USA), Dothan, AL.
Saturday, June 22, 2013
Hands
Thursday, June 20, 2013
You Get The Break
You Get the Break
"We are what we repeatedly do." - Aristotle
I once had a summer basketball camp coach who was fond of misquoting Vince Lombardi. He told us boys, "Practice does not make perfect. Practicing right makes you perfect. Practicing the wrong things makes you perfect at the wrong things."
Isn't it odd that we jump to practicing without asking if we're practicing the right things?
We practice the things that keep the peace, that make the money, that pay the mortgage, that make us popular, that we see in the media, that other people do. The results reinforce our habits, which reinforce our minds, that reassure our opinions that we must be practicing the right things.
Habits are so hard to change because, good or bad, once we're practiced at them, they're ours. They're us. People know us by our habits. They know what to expect of us, where to find us, how we'll behave. But more, habits are what we know of ourselves. If we practice habits that produce good results, we self-assess as, "good." If we practice habits with less-than-desired results, we call ourselves, "bad," or weak, or lazy, or any number of names that do absolutely nothing to encourage us. That's not a good habit. But it's ours. So, [insert person, boss, church, spouse, parent, child] stop bugging me about my [insert habit here]. That's just who I am.
If only we could get a break from what we repeatedly (have to) do. But then, who would we be?
My tradition of faith has long wrestled with this question. The Heidelberg Catechism of 1576 answered this way:
"I am not my own, but belong--body and soul, in life and in death, to my faithful Savior Jesus Christ.... Because I belong to him, Christ, by His Holy Spirit, assures me of eternal life and makes me whole-heartedly willing and ready from now on to live for him."
In other words: You are not what you repeatedly do. You are not just the sum of your habits. You are something more than the results your practices produce.
Your habits are just... habits. They may be good; they may be bad; but they're not you. You're free to jump out of the hamster wheel of habits and try something else without sacrificing your worth.
You get the break.
What will you do with it?
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Tuesday, June 18, 2013
Celebrate What You're Not
Celebrate What You're Not
No band.
No projectors.
No yelling.
Just worship.
That's the sign in the hallway where most of our guests enter the church building. It's a way of telling people about Sunday worship by telling them what we're not.
What are you... not?
It used to be that all you needed to start a church was a Bible and a bowl of water. Now, you need a warehouse, projectors, screens, a band, strategic ferns, and a preacher with a three-legged stool.
Lake Hills Presbyterian Church has none of these. And that's OK.
(Full disclosure: we do have a projector and a portable screen that find occasional use in worship.)
The fastest route to irrelevance is bending over backwards to be relevant. The fastest way to be old-fashioned is racing to the latest fashion. A 50 year-old man can dress like his teenage son, but that doesn't make him young, or cool. It makes him a 50 year-old man in the clothes of his teenage son. Not cool.
Making people happy, making people like you, is exhausting. No one can keep up. This doesn't mean you throw out your adaptive skills. It means you sharpen your adaptation. It means you aim carefully at who you choose to be, and, by consequence, who you will not. Does this mean you don't care what other people think? Of course not. But caring what others think of you is different from living under the fear of missing out.
If a church's goal is attracting more members, it's missing the point. My view is that the purpose of the church is to live as a faithful community, serving God by making the world a more loving place. Can a church do that with a band, projectors, and angry voices? Of course it can. Many do. But it doesn't need to. Unless it chooses to. And then, it chooses not to do other things. And that's OK.
If the goal of your life is convincing people to like you, you're also missing the point. Because no matter how many "Likes" you get, there are always people who won't click with you. You can worry yourself to death about this, or you can focus your energy and send your gifts to their best use. But this means you'll also choose how you will not spend your energy. And that's OK.
Joshua 24:15 says, "Choose today whom you will serve." That's the part that often gets quoted. But it also says to choose whom you will not serve, what you won't do, whom you won't be. The choice of what you don't do makes you just as unique as what you choose to do. Celebrate what you're not.